Quality Time

Yesterday we returned from Spring Break. The class brimmed with excited hugs, “hellos,” and “how are yous”.  They were quite lively at 7:55am despite the time change.

Before the Break I had asked them to share who they would be spending time with over the ten days. So at Morning Meeting yesterday I repeated the question and added how it made them feel.

“I got to spend time with my mom, and it felt good because I don’t get to do it that much.” “I was with my grandma and grandpa, and I felt happy because I don’t get to see them that often.” “My cousins came to town, and I felt excited because I only see them twice a year.” “My sisters and I just played and hung out, and I felt happy because we are always doing other things.” …and similar refrains from the majority of students.

Two things I take away from this. One is that children relish that time with their loved ones. They yearn for it. They’re wanting that connection. The other is that these kids don’t necessarily need the Disney World, Harry Potter, St. Thomas trips that I hear about. As parents, we may feel like we need that “outside” entertainment. But I think some quality time with people who love them matters more.